Marko,

I did use Auto focus, I cant seem to get out of the habbit of using it !!

Like you say I need to focus on the eyes..
The lighting problem in future is relatively easy to sort out.

the over saturation is due to hdr, if this image was correctly focused and lit i suppose there would be no need to use this effect ?

Note to self: REMEMBER,FOCUS ON EYES!, MANUAL FOCUS! lol

Thankyou marko,a great help.