there are people that detract from your life and deserve to be gone. However, I don't think that we can only evaluate people from what they contribute to us. We also have to consider how contribute others. If we take the 'what have you done for me lately' attitude then we risk being the deadwood in someone else's life.

I find at this forum people who are rude on this forum and informed pretty quickly that this is unacceptable. they either reform or leave. which is fine.


so my advice is that before you cut anyone off make sure that you are not contributing to the negative relationship.